dead, divorced, married, engaged.

So me and a couple of my friends were talking about divorce (since a couple of friends are getting one). The trend today is 40-50% of married couples end up in divorce. So of 16 people in my office, 2 are single, 6 have been/will be divorced, the rest are married. That fits right in with 42% divorcees. Also, 7 people have iPhones, so that really tells you how much of this world owns one. But anyways…

Our discussion led to, why do people get married? (I feel like I have written about this before.) My sister has decided that she does not want to be married nor does she want kids, however she will be very ok with a whole lotta dogs (kids). Guys respond, “she’ll change her mind in a few years” and girls (including me) respond, “she’s 23 – that’s the age where YOU KNOW how you want your life to be.” Sure you “want” it be a certain way, but we also accept that it might not end up that way.

I want to get married. I guess it’s sort of a show, but it’s also tradition. And I’m fairly traditional all thanks to my family. Or some people get married cause they’re pregnant, and they want the child to have a mother and father to make a real family and to eliminate speculation from others.

I want to have a ring, have a tea ceremony, and enjoy a badass reception. BUT that’s what I “want.” I want a ring cause I don’t need anyone to support me, so the ring would be a gift that I would truly treasure. And since that’s the one thing I can’t buy myself, I want it to be the biggest rock that my fiance can afford. I want to have a tea ceremony cause I’m traditional. I want to have a badass reception cause I’m OCD on planning unique and memorable parties.

So…why NOT get married?! Not committed, not committed enough, scared of divorce, scared of gossip, not old enough, too old, scared of expectations, not stable, not stable yet, you hate sharing — everything, don’t know.

-KTP

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